This past week while on my break I stumbled across news of a friend’s passing via face-book, instead of probing the husband about funeral arrangements I whatsapp text the kid brother. Well I wanted nothing but the funeral arrangements and he gave me just that. Many would think with my history of losing almost every sibling accepting and dealing with death would be quite easy to do. Well, it’s not, I’m not used to death and I doubt I will ever be. You see this friend (like most of my friends) was more than that she was a sister to me, I met her back at Tech days when I found myself room-less during school holidays … (I couldn’t afford going home every school holiday.) she and her boyfriend turned husband had ways to make such problems vanish, I’m grateful beyond. May your soul find eternal peace my sister.
As if that was not enough, I also had to deal with family, I had to come to terms with assuming my role as the head of the family *deep sigh*… anyways After my 12 hour drive back to Jozi last night I came home to a dead TV *sad face* I did not attempt to fix it as it was dead so I hopped in the shower then bed to wake up feeling heavy and at that moment I decided to let go of things and people that are not serving me good anymore, and that felt weirdly good.
I dedicate today’s Sunday Shows post to accepting things we can’t change and to let go of unnecessary frills. Khalil Gilbram says “ We choose our joys and sorrows long before we experience them”
With that being said let’s see what you can tune into this evening…
The Voice is still on…
who did you guys vote for, Kelly or JR?
OPW we get to see a couple that met at church Babalwa Chubeka and Chris Mokwevho, Chris said it was love at first although the same could not be said about Babalwa… when I read this story I thought about the blogger whose in a church hook-up situation but only in her case she wants nothing to do with brother man. Lol
I will be listening on the radio in bed, Happy Sunday Bahlali!
Zeeba ©
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